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we have had the pleasure of being blessed with the company of epito and epita, who made the long haul from maryland two days ago to spend christmas with us. they were smart enough to come a few days before everyone else to get some quality nayou time. i’ve known these two for over six years now and everytime i see them they are as energetic, healthy and vibrant as the first day we met!

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nayou was very excited to see them, having developed a good rapport with them through numerous skype conversations. his mantra on our way to pick them up was “‘pito, ‘pita, avion”. he had some big smiles for them at the airport and has been loving on them ever since.

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we’ve been taking things nice and easy since then. the first day went by in a blur, ending with an awesome dinner cooked for us by our neighbour cristela. this lady happens to run a restaurant in the front of her house so we have the pleasure of eating fresh handmade tortillas, tamales and other goodies almost every day.

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today we went to visit the piece of land we are thinking about buying. every time i go and visit that place i am reminded of how cool it is, and how nice the energy of the land feels. its so close to the middle of town and yet it feels like a world away. we’re still not in any place to make a decision on whether we want to buy it, but if we were to buy in sayulita, that would be the place. brenda and i are in the process of figuring out whether we want to put some roots down in sayulita, but we’re not sure when we’ll be in a position to make a decision. especially such a big one!

we also took a drive out to punta de mita. the beach is so nice there, as is the drive. we had another awesome meal while ogling the waves. its always the days that you don’t bring your boards that the surf is good! brenda and i managed to get a nice surf in this afternoon which was great. the epitos took care of nayou while we went out surfing together for the first time ever! the waves were small but fun to play around in. nayou wasn’t in such a good mood but we figured out later it was because he was ravenous. oops.

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this evening we received some very sad news – brenda’s sister julie sent us an email informing us that she had to cancel her flight out here due to the insane snow storm on the east coast. julie was supposed to leave tomorrow morning but all flights have been cancelled and the next one out wouldn’t put her in mexico until christmas eve. this is a big, big bummer and all of us were so excited to see her and her son paul. sigh.

we still have some good news though! brenda’s other sister christie will be flying in tomorrow afternoon, and in the evening both of my sisters will be arriving. so most of the family will be together, although the absentees will be sorely missed. tomorrow is also the day that we move into our new big house for the week. so lots of things happening! we’ll post some more updates later once we have settled in.

dear friends and family, we have been in sayulita for over 4 months now and have been so impressed with the way that the animals are taken care of here. Happily, they have a wonderful clinic called Sayulita Animals that was launched this year and has been providing service to Sayullita by way of free spay and neutering programs, as well as so many other services like an animal fostering program, free animal care to those that can’t afford to pay, advice, kindess, and love to all the people and little critters that come through their door.

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But as with any organization, there are stresses for fundraising, animal care, and being spread too thin for the unending work to be done. Within this last week, one of the original founders of the clinic Tamara gave her resignation, AND the two very lovely and compasionate vets – Marco and Paola – also gave their resignation.

I have been touched and saddened by the news as their work has really made a difference to this town (and especially to us via Rocky). They have done an out standing job and made a HUGE difference for the animals and people that live here.  So if you would like to learn more. Or if this story has touched you, like it has us, please help in any way you can! We all belong to one world community and we can all make a difference together.

Also, if you can please take a moment to send your thoughts, good vibes and healing energy to the animals here in sayulita and the wonderful people of the clinic, I’m sure that the universe will listen and provide.

thanks everyone for taking the time to read my first post from Mexico! 🙂 And please keep sending your comments as we enjoy reading them. Much love, Mama-b

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its been cloudy and rainy here for the last few days – very unusual for sayulita. i bet the plants are loving it though as we haven’t had any in well over a month. the fact that everything stayed lush and green is a testament to the hardiness of the flora around here.

rain is a bit of a bummer for us here. since the beach is a primary (and pretty much sole) source of entertainment, we are forced to get creative with our activities when it gets wet. we took a drive out to this piece of land we are thinking about buying to see if the soil drained well (it does). the land is beautiful and very peaceful, but there are many factors that are preventing us from taking the plunge and buying it. i’m going to save that story for another post later.

our expedition required some improvised raincoats and turning out huge sunbrella into shelter for all of us.

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on our way back to the car brenda stumbled upon this skeleton. at first we thought it was a fish but we looked at its teeth and decided it wasn’t. we still don’t know what it might be, but whatever it is, it looks pretty freaky. any ideas anyone?

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and since we were looking so hot we decided to parade ourselves around town for a while before heading home for our siesta.

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today nayou came down with a cold. we were afraid it might have been the big D but we took him to the doctor and he said it wasn’t. phew. he has a bit of a fever and a nasty chest cough though. poor little guy. its weird to see him stay in one place for long periods of time and be kind of floppy when you pick him up. there’s nothing sadder than seeing your child like that. please send your healing vibes his way!

nayou’s first birthday, for me at least, was accompanied by a huge sense of accomplishment. brenda and i spent those first twelve months in the murky haze of chronic sleep deprivation raising an amazing little baby that demanded lots of attention. i’m not saying that it was horrible – in fact, it was quite the opposite – but i would be lying if i said it was easy. so when he turned one, it felt like we had just completed a huge milestone.

our second year with nayou was very different from the first. he got his sleeping (almost) in order, learned to walk and communicate, all of which contributed hugely to everyone’s happiness. its like someone flipped a switch one his first birthday. now he’s this cheeky, adorable toddler who i just love to bits. he still drives me crazy sometimes but he is so much fun to hang around with!

nayou’s special day started off with the opening of some presents. we figured that if we gave all of his presents to him at once he would just get overloaded, so we spaced them out throughout the day. many of our sayulita friends were really sweet and hooked nayou up with all kinds of new buses, cars, trucks and trains.

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i think nayou now has the most impressive collection of vehicles in sayulita!

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we spent the morning at the beach (where else?) playing in the sand. there were some more surprises from some of our friends who work at our usual cafe.

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in the afternoon a couple of nayou’s friends came over for a party. i came down with a cold so brenda was stuck with all the prep while i tried to stop the waterfalls gushing from my nose. she did an amazing job making food, a cake and decorating the whole house!

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no mexican birthday would be complete without a pinata. our friend brisa was kind enough to bring a splendid one over for nayou. it would be putting it mildly to say that nayou loves pinatas. he’s not so into the toys and sweets in them, but he can’t get enough of hitting them with sticks. we left the pinata carcass in our driveway and nayou goes out to smack it with his stick many times a day.

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all the pinatas i’ve seen in mexico are made out of terracotta, which make them satisfying to break but kind of dangerous as well. when we finally got the thing open a shard fell onto nayou’s head! oops. there were some tears but it was all ok. you can’t stay too sad when you’re surrounded with friends and new toys.

and no birthday anywhere would be complete without a cake. mama-b made an amazing banana cake from scratch that was sooo good! maple frosting and everything. i was hoping for some leftovers but no such luck.

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our video taking was kind of sporadic the whole day because we were too busy playing/party prepping, but here is a collection of the footage we did take:

the birthday spilled over into the next day with an extra gift from perla’s parents – a train with a phone on top of it! someone in china somehow knew the perfect combination of things for nayou because this thing hasn’t left his grip since he opened it.

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i was skeptical about the claim on the package, but after seeing how taken nayou is with the toy i’m beginning to revise my opinion:

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thanks to everyone who sent their kind words for nayou. its so nice to know he’s loved by so many people around the world. i can’t wait to see what kind of wonderful things year three has in store for us!

nayou’s last day as a one year old was a lot of fun! we run around getting stuff for his party tomorrow and hung around the house and the beach playing. here is a snippet from our tomfoolery this afternoon, including the mother of all bitchslaps.

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blogging in the diaz-tanimura household happens around 1pm when nayou goes down for his nap, or after 8.30pm, after he’s out for the night. the problem with both of these times is that they usually come directly after surfing and eating, after which i am in no mood to write anything. in fact, i’m usually fast asleep next to nayou! we’ve been having a string of great surf days lately. not only have the waves been awesome, but we’ve also been lucky enough to get clicked into some of the other surf spots around sayulita. yesterday we discovered an amazing break that goes on forever! we woke up this morning excited to go back only to be greeted by drizzling rain. oh well. its good to have a day of rest to catch up on email and blog and stuff. otherwise we’d be doing this:

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the day after rocky got snipped, we woke up to discover that his balls had grown back! actually the cut got inflamed and now he has a nasty infection. poor guy. he has to wear one of those silly dog cones to stop him from licking them. the cut has opened up and it looks really bad. he’s got an appointment with the vet tomorrow but for now the antibiotics and the anti-inflammatory pills are making sure he’s ok. at least he’s still got energy and an appetite. send your well wishes his way please!

nayou’s been really into towels and blankets lately. this morning on our way to the grocery store our bathmat kept him nice and cosy. and yes, the mat is clean – we forgot it at the laundromat!

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in addition to lots of surfing, we have been around a lot of kids’ birthdays lately. one thing we’ve come to realise about mexican culture is that they love their birthday parties. in new zealand (or at least wellington), everyone loves to get dressed up in costumes. in mexico (or at least sayulita), birthdays are the thing. one of nayou’s friends perla had her shindig last night and what a production it was! huge cake? check. multiple pinatas? check. unholy quantities of amazing food? check. dancing competition to reggaeton? check check and check.

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and speaking of birthdays, nayou is turning two in just over 48 hours. brenda and i were planning on being super low-key and not doing a party at all, but after seeing the extravaganza that the people here put on we decided to invite two of his close friends over for a small gathering. its still a bit hard to believe that our son is almost two… i was marvelling the other day at how much better he is communicating. we can have conversations now and actually “get” each other which is so cool!

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i think i’ve mentioned nayou’s bff in sayulita – saul. he is the kid who lives next door and his morning visits are what nayou looks forward to most. as soon as he wakes up he starts asking for saul, and his attachment to him grows daily. this morning he went and dragged him over to our house by his hand. very cute. saul is so good natured and a pleasure to have around. although we can hear him throwing temper tantrums next door on a daily basis so i think he’s on his best behaviour at our casa.

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something else nayou and i have been into lately – taking cheesy facebook profile pictures. ok maybe that’s actually just my thing but i drag him along anyway. my favourite is the last sexy cleavage shot. i’m sure you all agree.

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that’s about all the happenings to report for now. oh, except one thing – post-production on the movie i’ve been slaving away on for the last two years have finally wrapped. i bailed out on the last three months of the project to hang out in sayulita, but i still feel a sense of relief. especially for all the wetans who stayed through until the end. congratulations everyone! the film comes out on december 18th. go see it!

on wednesday we made the fateful decision to forever deprive rocky of his manhood. the operation went well and he recovered splendidly, although the look in his eyes tells me that he knows things will never be the same again. here he is showing off his junk the day before the snip. he’s still just as shameless though!

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our friend eric works at one of the surf shops on the beach. last week he told us that he was getting married to an argentinian woman after courting her for three (3!) days. passion runs high in the mexican male blood. his fiancee isn’t going to be back in sayulita until january, so he asked us to take some photos of him to send to her. brenda snapped some pretty manly ones this morning. sexy time!

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i don’t think i need to say anything about this one:

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